Monday, 3 July 2017

MADHARA YA MIMBA ZA UTOTONI, UZAZI CHINI YA UMRI WA MIAKA 18 WANAWAKE. (MWANAMKE/MSICHANA)

Mwanamke au msichana kupata ndoa utotoni kabla ya umri wake miaka 18 na kupata mimba au kuingiliwa kimaumbile. • Hupatwa na madhara yafuatayo: A. Msichana kuingiliwa na mwanaume kabla ya umri ama wanaumri sawa au mwanaume anayemzidi umri. ( i) Hupatwa na magonjwa ya kupasuka mirija ya uzazi haswa kwa kuwa mwanaume ana nguvu na spems zinaweza kupasua mirija midogo ya kukomaza njia ya uzazi. Hivyo baada ya muda wa kubalehe mirija za uzazi ziko wazi - Hivyo kupata mimba inatunga nje ya mfuko wa uzazi. Hivyo basi mimba nyingi za namna hiyo huzaa kwa njia ya kupasuliwa (operation service) kwani -Mfumo wa uzazi hauna nguvu ya kupokea yai la kiume (ii) Mbegu za kike aliyeingiliwa na mwanaume aliye na umri mkubwa huacha kukomaa baada ya Hedhi yake kwani shahawa au mbegu za kiume zilizokomaa huvunja nguvu zaidi ya yule msichana.

Social Mainstreaming for Gender Equality Organization (SMGEO)- Tanzania: Early Marriage !!

Social Mainstreaming for Gender Equality Organization (SMGEO)- Tanzania: Early Marriage !!: Early marriage is a global issue. It is quite common in the African and Asian countries. However, the consequence of early marriage is ser...

Early Marriage !!

Early marriage is a global issue. It is quite common in the African and Asian countries. However, the consequence of early marriage is serious, which can violate the rights of adolescence, both in this generation and the next.
It affects the education and well-being of millions of children and has a knock-on effect for the poverty and development of communities. Simply put, early marriage can violate children basic rights to a childhood, to an education, to good health and to make decisions about their own lives. Early Marriage Leads To Tragedy For a Young Woman In Africa The physical, emotional and social effects of early marriage are varied, but one of the most common outcomes is the withdrawal of girls from formal education. Traditionally people in some rural villages value marriage more than education of the girls. Many girls stop school because of getting married. Husbands of young wives are often older men, who expect their wives to follow tradition, stay at home and undertake household and child-care duties. Schools often have a policy of refusing to allow married or pregnant girls or girls with babies to return. So all the rules, timetables and physical conditions make it too difficult for a girl to attend school and perform her duties as wife and mother at the same time. Besides education, personal maturity is another problem they have to face in the early marriage. While immature and irresponsible actions may sometimes seem funny before marriage, they can become serious pitfalls within the marriage bond. One of the surest signs of immaturity and irresponsibility in both young men and young women is a lack of willingness to do a reasonable share of work in a consistent, dependable way. A third potential problem of early marriage is the problem of growing apart. This simply means that while two young people in their middle teenage years have much in common, that in many cases, our ideals and goals change as we pass the teenage years, to such an extent that we may easily find ourselves married for life to a person with whom we will ultimately have very little in common. Additionally, having babies too young, brides of early marriage are at an extremely high risk for fistulas and they have a higher risk of being infected with sexually transmitted diseases and at an increased risk of chronic anemia and obesity. Statistically, child brides have a higher risk of becoming a victim of domestic violence, sexual abuse, and murder. In order to prevent the early marriage, we should raise consciousness about the extensiveness of early marriage and seriously consider the potential problems it relates. Government should establish safe spaces for girls to gather and socialize to increase access to economic skills and resources. Additionally, we should raise awareness of the health and rights implications of large spousal age differences and inter generational sex. Efforts should be taken to support married adolescent girls by decreasing their economic vulnerability, offering schooling, civic participation, and livelihoods opportunities, developing interventions to reduce their social isolation. SMGEO 2017

Saturday, 15 April 2017

WOMEN WOMEN WOMEN !!!

Be happy with yourself and your life, and make it a great one, even if you do that alone. You yourself make it a happy, fulfilled and successful life, with or without a partner.. Direction for Happy Independence: Ladies, you are the Queen of Your Own Life, now and forevermore. Rule your life wisely and well. Be happy now and make the happiest life now, starting today. Do not wait to be happy. Do not wait for someone to make you happy. Do not wait to get this or that, or be this or that, or have this or that, or wait for any person, ever. Don't wait for anyone to give you, get you or bring you anything at all. Wait for nothing and wait for no one. You are the one that you are waiting for, and you always will be.
Don't delay, because today is the day. Don't delay living your life to the fullest, and wait for happiness to be brought to you, given to you, awarded to you, or bestowed upon you. You can have it right now, right here, just as you are, in your pajamas, sweats or jeans. You don't need a royal crown, robe and scepter to be a happy, fulfilled and successful woman. You don't need a king to make you a queen. You don't have to marry a prince to be happy, or to have a "happy ever after." You don't have to even have a prince and you don't have to be married to be happy. You can be royally happy and be a princess perfectly well on your own. Many women are perfectly happy and successful and fulfilled without a romantic partner at all: with no sweetheart, boyfriend, husband, lover or man. A queen with a king who's not loving, supportive, faithful, kind and an equal partner in the kingdom they're creating together will not ever be a happy and productive queen, no matter how big and beautiful the crown the king gives her. A man and a marriage does not guarantee any woman happiness. Actually, many women are quite happy without romantic partners, and they do quite well on their own, and they've chosen -- and continue to choose -- to be on their own. There are women who say, "no" to the "prince" (who may not treat them that royally now, or in the future, much less forevermore), and they never regret it. No one -- no man, husband, no prince, no king, no knight on a white horse -- and no marriage proposal, no ring, no marriage, no title of "wife" or "Mrs." can raise your status any higher when you're already a great woman on your own merits. Say no to what glitters that is not truly golden, that can tarnish. Say no to anything or anyone that limits you, lessens you, controls, oppresses, suppresses and represses you, or diminishes your power to be happy, successful and fulfilled, independently. Always say "yes" to yourself, in all ways. Say "I do" to you.🤔😲

Thursday, 2 February 2017

Wanawake ni nguzo ya jamii na uchumi wa nchi, asema Ruto

Naibu Rais William Ruto katika kongamano. Ruto anataka wanawake kupewa nafasi sawa katika jamii ili kuiendeleza. [Nation/www.nation.co.ke] Naibu Rais William Ruto amebaini kuwa Afrika haiwezi kuendelea kwa kumdhalilisha mwanamke, ila tu kwa kumpa nafasi murwa ya kujiendeleza katika sekta zote za maisha.
Ruto, katika ukurasa wake wa Facebook amefafanua kuwa dunia inadororesha sekta mbali mbali kwa kutomhusisha mwanamke katika maswala ya kiuchumi. "Kongamano hili litumike katika kuimarisha nafasi ya mwanamke katika masuala ya uchumi na biashara kote duniani ili kujiendeleza kimaisha," alisema Ruto. Naibu wa rais amesisitiza kuwa wanawake humu nchini wanendelea vizuri katika maswala ya kiuchumi hasa kutokana na kuwawezesha kupata huduma za mikopo pamoja na mpango wa fedha za Uwezo. “Huduma kwa wanawake, watu wenye ulemavu pamoja na vijana wameendelea kibiashara, swala ambalo lina umuhimu sana kwa maendeleo ya taifa hili,” aliongeza Ruto. Ujumbe wake vile vile umeungwa mkono na Rais wa Liberia Ellen Johnson Sirleaf, ambaye ametaja kuwa uhuru wa kumiliki ardhi kwa wanawake ni jambo ambalo linapaswa kushughulikiwa kiundani sana maanake ardhi ndio nguzo muhimu katika uzalishaji. Sirleaf ameongeza kuwa mwanamke ni nguzo ya jamii, huku akitoa mfano wa taifa lake la Liberria ambamo kupitia kwa mshikamano wa wanawake, taifa hilo limepata nafuu kutokana na hali ya utovu wa amani ambayo ilikuwa imelikumba kwa takriban miaka miwili.